Hey everyone, I want to share something in a safe space. My grandpa in law was recently put on an emergency restraining order against my grandmother and put in jail. He sexually assaulted a friend of my grandma’s, and when my grandma confronted him about it he hit her. After this was when my grandmother sought help and the restraining order was put in place. My mom works in the courthouse and was able to help my grandma legally and everything is okay in that regard. She is protected well legally.
What I want to share is that my grandpa is law tried to touch me sexually a few years ago. He never remembers my name (I live far away and am not around often) and makes lewd comments to me and quite frankly scares me. I never had the heart to tell anyone in my family. With all of the recent events occurring, I thought about telling my grandma but she’s so stressed out I think it would put her over the edge. I think i’m going to keep this to myself unless she ever thinks about bringing him back into her life or to testify against him.
He is finally away from my family, and I hope I never see him again.