I am 18 and dated a guy for about a year. During that year he raped me while I was sleeping and sexually assaulted me multiple times (pressuring me into doing things, tried to make me suck his dick while I was sleeping, would get mad at me for saying no, etc). I knew these things were wrong but never thought much of them because it was my first sexual experience and what I was used to for a year. About 6 months ago, he cheated on me. That is when I started to realize what he did was messed up and I now have trauma and get really anxious anytime a man touches me, etc. I want to press charges but I am scared. I have messages of him admitted to touching my vagina while I was sleeping and I also have a message of him saying “you raped me and sexually assaulted me. I hope your mother knows you’re a rapist.” How would this evidence help me and is it good enough to press charges? He is 17 but turns 18 near the end of the year, if that has any effect.